I can’t tell you how many times a husband, boyfriend, or partner has walked into my flower shop wanting to send flowers but has no idea where to start. Flowers can feel overwhelming. I understand. There are too many Latin names. Should you go with a tall or short arrangement? What colors should you pick? How do you get the most value for your money? Will it send the right message? It’s easy to feel unsure—especially if you’re new to this.
So I put together this easy guide to help you send the right flowers from BloomsyBox.com every time.
#1: Don’t Use a Large Online Flower Company
Most people don’t realize that when you order from one of the big flower companies online, your order is actually made and delivered by a local florist. Instead of using a huge system that handles millions of orders each day—where your order is just one of many—take a few minutes to contact a local florist directly. They’ll make your order feel personal. You can talk to someone real the first time, and once you trust them, you can use their website for future orders.
#2: Don’t Always Go with a Dozen Roses
We all know what a dozen roses in a vase looks like. It’s a classic and beautiful choice. But many women say they’re tired of the same old arrangement. Most women say they would rather receive a mix of flowers, especially ones that are in season. The more flowers you can include in your budget, the better the arrangement will look.
#3: Try to Spend More Than $50, If You Can
This isn’t about being fancy or spending more than you should. And yes, it’s true—flowers won’t last forever. But if you can increase your budget, it does make a difference. She will notice. Many women (and even some men) are naturally drawn to flowers. They can lift someone’s mood, help them relax, and bring a big, happy smile. Spending more means you give more of these good feelings. A $50 bouquet is nice. Spending another $50 is even better. If you go beyond that, it can really make her day.
#4: Take Time to Write a Thoughtful Card Message
The same goes for the card. The more thought you put into it, the more meaningful the gift becomes. People often call in and say, “Oh, I didn’t even think about what the card should say!” Take a few minutes to think about it (or search online for ideas). It doesn’t have to be long, just sincere. The card is what carries the message behind your gift, so make sure your words match the meaning of the flowers.
#5: Ask for Seasonal Flowers Arranged in Water or a Vase
If you want the flowers to last longer, go with an arrangement designed in water. Most women love flowers, and having them in water helps them stay fresh longer. Seasonal flowers are also usually more affordable, which means you can get more stems for the same price. They also haven’t traveled as far and are more in tune with the time of year. It’s a great way to give a thoughtful gift that feels right for the season.